As a mom you know very well that putting yourself first or even second is not a priority. You love your family and you love taking care of them. You have no time to even eat a proper meal or take a long bath. You put everybody’s needs above yours and you are happy when your family is happy. Sound about right?
However there are a few moments during the day that you can’t help but wonder, “What if ?”. What if you could take an hour or two here or there to dedicate just to you? What were all those things you loved to do b.k. (before kids era). Before you get consumed by guilt, and think that your family may not survive if you take a time out from them, let me just tell you, they will. It’s essential for them that you are happy and balanced.
It wasn’t long ago that I always wanted to pursue my dream of teaching fitness classes. I kept putting it off because mainly I was afraid. What if that meant that I wouldn’t have time for my family? How could I be so selfish? Moms are often consumed by guilt and even though we dream about the things we want to do, very often we don’t follow through.
Finally after the support of my amazing husband who very wisely said, “You can do this”, I took the plunge and pursued my dream. I got certified and started teaching. Do you think I don’t have time for my family? I do! It is still my number one priority to take care of them. I also know that I need to take care of myself and be a balanced, healthy person with no regrets. I love teaching fitness classes, I love seeing other moms because we share the joys that our children are giving us. Most of all I love making a difference even if it’s something small like putting a smile to someone’s face.
Maybe your dream is to be a fitness instructor as well, or take those ballroom classes that you always thought about. Whatever it is, go out there and do it. Your future self will thank you and so will your family. There is nothing better for them than seeing you smile!
